Sweetheart
in Athens 🇬🇷
A side-by-side hold with crossed arms in front — like walking hand-in-hand, but with structure and intention.
Why it matters
The sweetheart teaches arm management. Both partners must maintain tone without rigidity in a crossed-arm configuration, which is harder than it sounds. It's the position where you learn that arms are communication channels, not ropes. Every leader who struggles with tangled arms in complex combinations needs to go back and master sweetheart entries and exits.
The sweetheart position places both partners side by side facing the same direction, arms crossed in front at roughly waist height, with the leader on the follower's left. Unlike the cuddle where one arm wraps around, the sweetheart keeps both hand connections intact in a crossed configuration. It's a fundamentally stable position that allows synchronized footwork, side-to-side movement, and smooth transitions into turns and wraps. The name isn't accidental — it looks and feels romantic, which is why choreographers love ending sequences here.
Beginner
From open position, leader: raise your left hand and guide the follower into a right turn underneath it. As she completes the turn, catch her other hand so you end up side by side with arms crossed — your right hand holding her right, your left holding her left, both sets crossed in front of her. Walk forward together in basic timing. Feel how both hand connections give you a stereo signal of her movement.
Intermediate
Use the sweetheart as a launchpad. From here, you can unwind into open position, transition to a cuddle, or send the follower into a turn that exits into something completely different. Practice sweetheart walks with directional changes — forward, backward, lateral. Add a synchronized body wave in this position: it requires both partners to match timing precisely because the crossed arms amplify any mismatch.
Advanced
The sweetheart position becomes a canvas for musicality. Hold it during a melodic phrase, add a dip on a break, transition into a shadow position on a rhythmic accent. Advanced leaders play with the arm tension — a gentle pull creates a lean, a compression creates a body wave. The position's stability means you can take risks with levels, speed changes, and directional shifts without losing your partner.
Practice drill
Practice the entry from open position into sweetheart 15 times, then add an exit back to open position. Once that's clean, chain: open → sweetheart → cuddle → open. This triangle teaches you three fundamental transitions that recur in every combination you'll ever learn.
Sweetheart in Athens
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